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Monday, March 14, 2005

Decision>

I don't like making decision sometimes, either because of I dunno how or it's not for me to decide. If my decision is not gonna affect anything, I'd rather do nothing.In fact I believe that making decision connects with one's personality, most of the decision makers are bossy and they are used to make decisions,they even decide things when they ask for opinion from people, it's unconsciously.One example, there are several ways of asking a person whether he/she needs something. Decision makers ask in this way:" I'm buying ...do you want?" I usually ask in this way, "Do you want...?I may buy for you." See the difference? if you don't see, you probably are a decision maker. How about me? Sometimes I can be a decision maker, but most of the time, I'm a trouble maker.

External pressure

I'm talking about another issue here, namely "external pressure".It's regarding my current relationship, as it goes,lots of problems came out, not between my partner and me, but come from external sides.Friends ,family and so on.It seems it's easy to be in love but hard to be involved in a relationship, (of course it's harder to be in marriage then and it's not in my level yet.)Now I understand why Fox broke up with his ex girlfriend even though they were still madly in love.I suddenly feel stressed because of all these external factors,even told my partner about it,and I found what we could do is limited.And my partner said : too bad, the reality is different.Therefore I have a conclusion here, love is not equal to relationship.But isn't it nicer to have your beloved one around? And now I shall say what the first part I talked about are just nonsense, this time even though I know my decision won't affect much,in spite of these external pressure,still I decide to be with my partner.

Change

Maybe I'm writing this part to my partner...

When we come to be together, there are increased oppoturnities for us to influence each other,these changes are likely to bring us closer, I'm glad.However, I don't mean to totally change you, or when I see some changes starting cause troubles for you, I feel upset and guilty.

# posted by Viviangore | 3:52:00 PM

2 Comments:

Nah i'm not so retentive :P i'm rather receptive of changes.. so dun worry, hugs! ^-^

By Anonymous, at 8:24 AM
It's great to have you.

By Viviangore, at 6:52 PM